We waited in line for two hours to vote today, knowing that we could have voted early. But there’s something exciting about standing in line with other Americans to vote. My husband and I like to rustle up our adult kids and meet at the polls whenever we can. And so it was that I came to be standing in line with three of my grownup kids, reporting to others who vote at our polling place and hearing from the rest what the lines were like at their polling places.
Old people, babies, toddlers bundled up in their bright-colored hats, women in pant suits, farmers, whole families, people of all different races, all waiting together. You make new friends, standing in line for two hours. You hear interesting things.
The old man leaning on his cane for two hours, barely able to shuffle along in line, impressed me. The young mothers with nursing babies, trying to juggle a baby, a stroller and diaper bag, and hang onto a rowdy toddler impressed me. The Asian family and the African American family who came with ancient grandparents, middle-aged parents, young adults and college-aged kids and grandbabies impressed me.
Nobody complained. Everyone smiled good-naturedly as the wind mercilessly whipped our hair around our faces. Nobody grew surly or impatient or short-tempered when we got up to the doors and saw only 16 voting booths for hundreds of voters. We were happyto vote and get our “I Voted” stickers.
For the first time in months, nobody wanted to talk about his or her candidate. Nobody wanted to tell others how to vote or what to believe. Everyone was excited about this historic vote. Everyone had something good to say about every candidate.
I even heard people stand up for President Bush, calling to mind the terrible things that happened on his watch and over which he had no control, such as 9/11.
One of my children voted for the first time today. Though he was grumpy about standing in line for two hours, he admitted that he’s waited in line longer for concerts or sporting events. As I watched him feed his ballots into the ballot machine, I grew a little misty-eyed. I saw his first steps and today I saw his first vote. I am so proud of him.
As we walked out the doors, the first hundred or so people we passed clapped or called out to as we exited the polls. “Hope you voted for the right side!” and “A moving line—that’s the change we need!” to much laughter.
But once the laughter died down, a twenty-something man in a ball cap, his pregnant wife standing nearby, said, “People around the world would love to have the opportunity to stand in line and vote in a fair election—think about China. Think about all the places where people don’t have this privilege.”
We stopped in our tracks, and everyone around this young man fell silent. You could see that people were considering what he said, thinking about how blessed we are. As agreement broke out, we walked away, but I swear, I was choked up.
It really is great to be an American, after all.

If you voted today, what was your experience like?



9 responses so far ↓
Tammy // November 4, 2008 at 2:47 PM |
Oh Eve… what a wonderful post! I’m in tears here. As an ex-pat, my voting booth consists of my kitchen table and a fax machine. It’s convenient but carries weigh less meaning to me than it would if I were standing in line with my fellow Americans, waiting to express my hope for the future of my homeland with a simple marking of a ballot. It is a privilege that I take so very seriously.
My last chance to stand in line was in 1998, just a few weeks before I married my Canadian husband. I remember it being dark (I went after class and work) and in a school and chilly, and there weren’t very many people in line. When I left, I was so emotional because I wasn’t certain when I would be able to have that experience again.
I voted last week, and I celebrated with my Canadian children “Momma’s country” by painting a flag from a book we’ve been reading and making star cookies and frosted them red, white and blue. I don’t know if I will ever get to stand in line again. But I do know this… I will always vote, no matter what.
Thanks for this post, and celebrating with you that especially wonderful milestone, your son’s first vote! Have a blessed day!
davidrochester // November 4, 2008 at 2:59 PM |
Now I wish I’d stood in line.
This was very touching. And I’m not easily touched.
henitsirk // November 4, 2008 at 8:06 PM |
It’s true, we sometime whine and complain about the inconvenience (and I’d still like to see election day be on a weekend), but really we are so, so lucky to live in the USA.
We had no line at all when we went to vote at lunchtime. Our polling place was a hotel conference room, and three precincts had about 10 or 15 polling booths each. It occurred to me that depending on what’s happening in my life over the next few years, it would be nice to volunteer at a polling place.
Eve // November 4, 2008 at 9:01 PM |
Tammy! Where have you been?! It’s so good to see you! I hope you’ll blog soon so I can know how you’ve been.
I’m glad you continue to vote. So many people do not.
Eve // November 4, 2008 at 9:02 PM |
David, I was glad I went. I didn’t expect it to be the good experience it was. I was reminded that we’re all in this together, and that these competitions can bring out the worst in us. It seems to me that people are relieved this day is finally here.
Eve // November 4, 2008 at 9:05 PM |
Heni, I thought about volunteering, too. It’s a worthy cause, for sure.
I too would like to see voting over a weekend, maybe from Friday to Saturday. That would be nice.
mommaruth // November 4, 2008 at 9:27 PM |
I was prepared to wait in line per all the hype on TV. I had my book, and a snack, and was prepared to enjoy a little time away from my bratty, er, lovable, 2yr old.
Alas. There was no line at all! I walked in and walked out.
Oh, but I did get shh-ed by the polling guard. The other polling guards asked about my expanding tummy and family. I thought I was speaking in an approriate indoor voice, but I guess not. I wrapped up the friendly conversation, and left. : )
Irene // November 5, 2008 at 1:52 AM |
I truly wish for every one of you that the best person for the job gets voted in. And that hopefully we will see changes for the good of all, everywhere.
Eve // November 5, 2008 at 10:22 AM |
Irene, I agree with the heart of your comment, so brief, but so good: plenty of blessing for all.
I do not believe in a scarcity model of the universe. I believe in the “good of all, everywhere,” and appreciate that you put this thought out there for capturing. Thanks.